I am reminded of Plato

I recently had a falling out and regathering with a very special friend. One of the things she told me was that I had said things that made her cry. While apologizing and saying it wouldnt happen anymore, she said she didnt want me to say I would change because she would know there was something more I ment to say. However I was meditating on this subject and came to a realization. I want to change not just when talking to her, but when talking to anyone and everyone. There is never an acceptable reason to verbally shit on someone. She may notice me not saying such harsh things anymore. But it wont be because I have changed for her. It will be because I believe I must always strive to better myself for positive personal growth. As such I will try my best to change who I am, so that I can be better to and for everyone around me. This is my ninja way. Always strive to be a better person. Thats something most people dont do anymore. So many people think that once they have hit a certain age that they have become exactly who they will be. Let me say this. When I was 14 I had no idea who I would be at 16. When I was 16 I had no idea who I was going to be at 18, I never even contemplated it. But I have looked back and seen how different I was during each of those spans. Even the latest. Who I was at 18 I had no idea who I would become and 20. And now at 21 I have no idea who I will be at 22. I will always be willing to learn the lessons life throws my way, I must never become complacent and believe that I know the absolute truth of everything, there is always more to understand. I can say with absolute certainty that I am looking forward to who I will be. Because I have never worked so hard to be a better person. Inside and Out.

"You are young, my son, and, as the years go by, time will change and even reverse many of your present opinions. Refrain therefore awhile from setting yourself up as a judge of the highest matters."--Plato